Lifes Lessons…..and Self Reflection….

This can be very complex and a very individual thing, my story and life lessons are not anyone else s, they might be intertwined, but they are not everyone’s..


So really I can only describe my thoughts and feelings on the subject as they have come to me during the years to the point I am at right not in life.


I am now 45 years old. For the last almost 7 years I have worked with people with disabilities. My world label is, Community Living Facilitator. Why I tell you this will be shown as I tell a little of my life further into this post.


As a child I would help my mother with her wild bird care, I loved my animals, was fiercely loyal to friends and a soft caring child. My first employment opportunity was with a Pacing Horse stable. Typical me, gave it all I had, to the extent of one time working with a concussion, where looking back now, I really should have been taken to hospital.


During these years my friend loyalty would be tested over and over again. I seemed to give as much as I had of myself. Friends came and went, some stuck for a lot longer. I will never ever regret their part in my life as good or bad they taught me not only something about myself, but also something about the sort of people I could have in my life and those I couldn’t. I now use what I call a friendship circle, you earn your way into that circle and I let some boundaries down, but if there is a stuff that I cannot live with, you slowly work your way out of the circle. Some earned a big leap out. But some behaviours and choices that people make are some that you just cannot live with.


Now I believe that we have written this life before we returned in this body and this shell we exist in right now. So I believe that we are given things that we chose, we just don’t remember them when we come back. And that every thing we are doing is working on improving our souls and its accent-ion each return. I am hoping this is making some sense as its just flowing out, so I am not sure its in good order to make sense lol


All my life, I would help my friends through situations, deaths, loosing boyfriends, divorce, friendship losses, mental stability and happy times, birth of children, foals, puppies, new relationships and more. I remember in the early days, I would do the usual, hand myself over to the process so completely and with no boundaries, that I would loose myself in the process. I would loose sleep, get angry at their choices that were theirs to make, let myself feel hurt and pain when the let me down.


Now self reflection is a brilliant tool!! it is something that is so powerful and valuable. By teaching myself self reflection I have manage to slowly teach myself what I was allowed to feel, not what others made me feel, because really unless someone is holding a gun to your head there is no real way for anyone to make you feel anything, you are letting yourself feel those things by choosing it.


My longest friendship of 33 years ended 2 and half years ago. What did I do, I straight away self reflected and you know what, I was just as responsible for her behaviour as she was, I allowed her to be the needy feeder. I let this happen for so long that the one single moment in time where I was suicidal since I was 19 years old and I needed my best friends support.. what did this best friend of so long do… Her statement “I cant deal with this shit”. It was then that I realized, not only was I not getting any respect in the friendship, but that I was holding her back from learning by still being around, being that rock, being the person that was always there, was enabling her to stay stuck where she was.


My point of discussing the above in the guise of life’s lessons is. I am 45, I work in the disabled sector and probably will till I retire, since my move here and getting this job, a job that my entire life, choices and behaviours have led too this point in time, this job, this place, this home, my own home, fabulous supportive complete friends, who give just as much as I give out. Several extended families that I love and adore as if they were my own blood.


I know that my life’s lessons are not over, life is still throwing me new ones each week, month or year and every one will be learn t by self reflection, love, peace and forward action.


A young friend about Christmas time said something to me that threw me a beauty. She said, “As much as its horrible, I am glad to see that you have made a mistake” (this was about my mares laminitis and the fact at a time of great grief after putting her paddock mate down, I gave her the wrong stuff for hydration and it left her in great pain and a long road back) My first thought was wow, am I projecting myself as some perfect person, am I coming from EGO!


So what did I do, I self reflected and talked to the next best person possible, my bestie Dianna, We are very like minded in how we think and feel about many things, now Dianna and I hope to have an extremely long friendship, we are able to tell each other just as we need to, we see each other just as we need to and in great times of crisis, we are there for one another with complete loyalty and hand ourselves over to that moment totally. So I asked Dianna what she thought about the comment from our young friend and she said it just perfectly.


“Its not that we don’t make mistakes, its that if and when we make a mistake, we turn every part of it around to a positive and make it all better by moving forward.”


So life’s lessons never end, they are eternal, our soul energy is eternal. We are not responsible for what others, do, think, feel. We are only responsible for our own, thoughts, feelings.

The Difference “IT” Can Make…..

“The main cause of our unhappiness is never the situation itself, but our thoughts about it” ―Eckhart Tolle


But what is “IT”? IT is, balance – psychically, mentally…Fitting into a house….Karmic and Spiritual protection.


Conversation with housemate has been about what “IT” and what “IT” means, that shifting just one town over to my house,

turned her life around.  When I say turned her life around, she has gone from karmic tidal waves, financial crisis one

after the other and very little work. To now having a full work week, almost financially stable and smoothed out karma.

Spiritual and physical tension is releasing and physically in herself she feels and looks better.


We have many in depth conversations about spirituality, balance, thought patterns, karmic repercussions from current

and past.


This is all very relevant to each individual, its not something you can say is a one for all. I remember as a child dreaming

about a stunning old building, white inside, a great painting of a white horse with its rider up one end over an entryway.

Years after when I developed my passion for horses, I spotted an article on the Riding School of Vienna and wow, it was

exactly as I saw in the dream and in my heart it felt like I had been there before. This is our validation that we have been

here before. Just recently there have been articles of children remembering past lives, one actually pointed out the man

that had killed him years before, then when the man didn’t confess, the child showed the police where his body was

and where the weapon was, then the man confessed to the murder. It can and does happen.


So with this surely comes karma from the past. Then there is karma from our current lives. Small karma from the white

lies, Big karma from wishing someone harm or in some cases even making the harm happen. So what do we do with this

knowledge.  My housemate and I came to a conclusion.


Karma is not ours to serve or will on anyone. Find peace in yourself, hand it to the universe and mother Goddess and let

them deal with it as they see fit. By doing this two things happen. You relieve yourself of karmic recourse and you relieve

yourself of any pressure that you would have hanging onto the situation.  People have trouble letting things go, they

want to chase things down, hang on to them, rage and rant and make sure everyone hears.  But what they are actually

doing is giving the situation and the person, energy they don’t deserve and binding themselves to the person and situation

for longer.


People will go hogwash on karma and generally this is because they have been awash with what they think is bad luck.

Well it might be back luck, that stuff is not all about karma, two other things come into play, luck and choices.  I had one

friend who just could not miss a trick, everything that could happen to her did.  But you know what, everything that I saw

happen to her, I could bring back to her choices, her choice to smoke marijuana every waking moment of every day, then

she drove her car and so on. This one was choices pure and simple.


All of this also flows into life’s lessons, but that might be a post in itself.  Heavy three days ahead at work so I might not get

to the next one till Saturday Western Australia time. I will try and keep a flow of connection with posts and in between time

give off more info of general spirit or witch information.


Blessed Be


Psychic Protection…..

I decided to start this blog, as I seemed to be doing a lot of fixing for people who have opened themselves up unsafely.

There have been cases of children not sleeping, parents not coping, weird odors, waking up with bruising and injuries,

reoccur-ant night mares, things moving, things missing, seeing dark shapes etc. From asking those people details, much

of the below has come to the forefront of discussion.

Unsafe practices are –

* opening yourself without sufficient protection

* allowing a reading from someone without knowing if the person practices good psychic hygiene (will touch on this further down)

* Leaving yourself open at all times without a filter

* Letting your emotions run your life and thought processes

* allowing someone to connect to your energy without psychic hygiene

* allowing others to control how you feel and react

* making sure no one is ill on either side of the reading

What is Psychic Hygiene?

This is something every psychic practitioner should do, Its a bit like Personal Protection Protocols in hospitals, the washing of the hands so that we don’t get cross contamination, it is very much the same with energy connections.

Anyone who has connected to another should first and foremost have their own protection up thoroughly. The more Layers, the better the protection! Simple white light is simply not enough, my house alone, has layers of protection.

I have crystal gridded the property, then I have my witches bottles, crystal gridded the house, then my room where I work also has a grid. I also have other protections set up on the other plain. The more layers, the more balance and grounding, the better protected you are.

What are attachments?

These are creatures or entities who have connected to a place, person or object. They are not necessarily nasty,

but can be int-eruptive to a persons life, distressing to some, nasty to others and sometimes even physical.

So what can you do?

I will try and make it as simple as possible and not to hard to find resources.

First I grid the house, I do a salt around the property.

Grid tools – (crystals must be cleansed and charged under the full moon)

crystals of Tiger eye, snowflake obsidian and a rose quartz. Rose quarts in the middle of the house, whether under it or in the roof, split the rest and place them at all points of the property, push them underground, make sure your intent is clear and strong while pushing them under.

then I do the same with the house, just no salt..

bedroom, grid again, I like to use hematite in each corner of the bedroom and Lapis in the windows. The bedroom has also been smudged with white sage, frankincense, myrrh.

Personal Psychic Hygiene

Before I start, I will shower using Dragons-blood Soap, coat myself in my mind with a completely sealed gold armor. I am in my protected space, if I am out in the open and decide to open myself out there, I have a set group of crystals in my bag that I will use to create that space around me, imagining the pentacle and circle up above and below.

So you have done a reading on someone, what now?

Disconnect!!! cut the gold thread to that energy, cleanse yourself of it all, ground and send it into the earth or out the lotus flower on the top of your head and release it… Now I have mentioned the lotus flower, this is your door to the universe, this is your open, close and filter, you can open it to work, leave it lightly closed to filter what is coming and going through it, you can close it down.

What questions can you ask someone who you wish to do a reading for you?

There are a couple of things to be mindful of when you ask for healings or readings. Ask questions!


*  How do they protect themselves?

*  How do they Cleanse?

*  How do they disconnect and when?

*  Are they well enough to do a reading?

* Do they take any sort of drugs?

* Have they had any alcohol?

* Are they currently ill?

If yes to either of the last three, run a mile!

Keep in mind always, that if they cannot answer these questions happily and calmly, then they are working in and with EGO!

EGO has no place in this work ever! Ego keeps us stuck, sour, unmoving and inflexible.

Grounding and Balance

These are so important!! I can not state this part seriously enough, if you are not balanced and grounded you are

in serious trouble. Balance is light and dark, yin and yang, do and don’t, come and go, all of these things cannot live without

the other.  Embrace it all.. just because you are embracing the dark with the light, does not mean you are being oppressive

nasty or malicious, it just means that you are willing to be as completely balanced as possible and that if you need to take

yourself to the dark defensively for protection, you can.

Grounding exercise –

Sitting in a comfortable chair or laying down if that fits for you. See your toes moving like roots into the earth and latching

on and into the earth, open your lotus flower to and filter energy (don’t just flip it open!) from the top of your head down

through your feet into the earth and back up again, flow it through over and over again. If you feel light headed, slow the

flow and ease it back in. A good test of how grounded you are, is to shut your eyes, start your grounding, you will feel

yourself sway, if you have trouble holding your feet, your not solid enough in your grounding. Practice, practice, practice.


Now in all of this, if you have been told or are suspicious that you are not well, have an attachment or are not in a good frame of mind…. STOP EVERYTHING!!! (except grounding) do not read, heal or connect with anyone,  you risk anyone whose energy you touch, you mold and exchange energy and are then infecting those whose energy you touch!!!